Tuesday, March 13, 2007

What do I think is a perfect date?

I was asked by sugar daddy what my perfect date I have always dreamed about was. I guess it would have to be a date where me and a gentleman went for a walk or perhaps out to ride horses, then drove down to the movie theater watch a movie - a horror movie so I have an excuse to hide, because I detest horror movies.

After the movie was over we would go out to dinner at a nice restaurant. Nothing expensive or too fancy, just something higher class than a fast food joint and where there was not going to be kids racing around the tables. A quiet restaurant where we could have a semi-secluded booth with a candle on the table.

After dinner a quiet walk then back home to sit on the overstuffed sofa or on a pile of blankets before an open fireplace and watch the fire. Just holding one another and enjoying the quiet as we sipped cups of coffee (probably Irish coffee).

So I guess something that would have a little fun rolled in with quiet excuses to be together and conversations about everything and nothing. I'm not an expensive date, but I am certainly not the sort that believes that a proper date is to meet a guy behind Wendy's for a no names traded in the back of his car, and that is what I seem to get on most dating sites. That is why the idea of Sugar Daddy appeals to me, a dating site for men and women that love to spoil and be spoiled. I know that there are good men out there still, it just seems like all the good guys are taken. And I don't mean the sexy men with the good paying jobs and expensive taste in gifts, I mean the quiet spoken gentlemen that will still hold a door for a lady on their 75th wedding anniversary, the quiet smiles that accompany a carefully collected bouquet of wild flowers behind a back, and the men that are comfortable with a woman that likes to go mud bogging and hauling firewood one day and would prefer to just cuddle by the fire the next.

I'd like to find someone that appreciates silence for hours or even days on end, but still enjoys intelligent discussions about the universe and is driven insane by wanting to discover the answer to the question: "If space never ends, how is that possible, and if it does... what's on the other side?"

So, I guess my ultimate answer to the question sugar daddy asked would be - my dream date would be to be doing anything with the one man that can accept me how I am and love me for all that I am without being motivated by how I look or sound or act. I've had a lot of trouble finding a guy that is worth more than a passing glance, but I still dream and hope and occasionally look to see if he is out there somewhere.



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